I definitely have a love/hate relationship with social media. It’s like crack, luring me in with the promise of a better tomorrow, until I realize that I have totally wasted today on Twitter, or Facebook, or Goodreads. But is it really a waste? I’ve stumbled across so much fascinating information by using social media, discovering all kinds of interesting articles, blogsites, and websites on history, pop culture, politics, and the arts. I rarely surf the internet anymore. Rather, I follow the specific links I find on Twitter or Facebook. Even better, I’ve discovered people. Wonderful, funny, intelligent people, including writers, publishing industry professionals, and readers, from all over the world. Some have even become friends, and how utterly cool is that?
So it seems that what I have to do is manage my addiction and use social media to enhance my personal and professional relationships, and support my work. To that end, I’m reading a couple of really good books that deal with social media. One is a fabulous how-to book by Kristen Lamb, entitled We Are Not Alone. This is a social media guide for writers, and it deals with the big questions about social media and why people – not just writers – need it. The book also provides a nuts-and-bolts guide for setting up your own social media sites and accounts in clear language that is truly helpful to techno-peasants like me!
Kristen writes for Who Dares Wins Publishing, an independent publishing company created by Bob Mayer and Jennifer Holbrook-Talty. Bob Mayer is another great resource for writers and anyone aspiring to get published. He uses the skills and mindset he learned as a Special Forces soldier to teach writers how to conquer fear and bring discipline and positive change to their professional lives. Bob is also a really good writer and an all-around cool guy. Along with Jenny Crusie, he wrote one of my favorite books, the hilarious Agnes And The Hitman.
And you know how I found out about some of these folks? Through social media, of course. I even follow them on Twitter and Facebook.
How about you? Social Media: a positive vision of the future, or the bane of our existence?
4 thoughts on “Social Media – Love It Or Hate It?”
Thanks for the mention! Being a techno geek, getting on social media was the easy part, using it effectively is where I have stumbled at times.
You and me both, Jenni! Thanks for stopping by – I love the work you and Bob are doing. I think you’re both making a positive difference for writers in an exciting but very chaotic publishing climate.
We appreciate the mention. One of the keys to social media is building a community and realizing that people actually invest time and effort. I remember when the CEO of Smashwords came and commented on my blog after I said some things about the company. That made me think he was a person who really cared about what he was doing.
As Kristen says, it’s all about the human connection and a genuine effort. I’m still struggling to balance that with my writing!